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Dad as a teacher

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  My parents used to teach me certain things with a calm face at first but my poor brain tested their patience which ended up getting a nice smack in my head from my parents. It mostly happened when my dad taught me to ride a scooter It happened when I was 11 years old, I'm not even near my dad's shoulder now then just imagine how could my leg reach to the ground even now it won't, but my father wants me to learn riding a scooter to which I couldn't even deny to them. At the initial stage of my learning, Dad would sit behind me and hold the handlebar with his both hands and later he started to support me only with his left hand when I lost balance and got a good shot either in my head or hand then somehow get balance and try to lead a good ride without getting any special gifts which make my hand red as a tomato. After years of getting a lot of criticism from my dad whenever he gives chance to ride a bike, it does make sense because I'll make a lot of mistakes. Till

The untold dream of many girls

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  Night outs, I know it's a dream of many girls they want to go out at night either alone or with friends once in their lifetime which will be denied by their strict Asian parents. Even though if they allow their children to go the next thing that comes into their mind is society, like what others will think about them if they let their daughter go out at late night the next valid reason would be safety although there will crowded places at night in the cities then what about the places apart from the city. I hope that most of the parents would allow their girls to go out at night if the crime rate were reduced to NIL. As we listen to most of the crime in the news every day as parents they want to protect their children from getting themselves into danger. As I asked my sister about this she said that most of the parents won't allow their kids even if the crime rates are reduced maybe some households have strict principles to follow. And many girls won't agree with the stat

Biggest inspiration

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  Everyone has a celebrity inspiration from our childhood for whom we might go crazy and love to do everything like them we adopt their body language, their gestures...we love everything about them and even dream of being like them in the future, I got my inspirational person when I was an early teenager, I guess that was the right time because that's when I felt so down about myself and even decided to give up on my passion thinking that's not my cup of tea, but God's plan always find its way to us even though we ran away from them. I came across this song 'What a beautiful name it is' by Hillsong Worship written and sung by Brooke Ligertwood some of you might heard this song, Hillsong worship is an Australian musical band consisting of 23 members. Brooke Ligertwood was a New Zealand singer and songwriter she's one of the prominent Christian worship leaders of this century, when I listened to her songs I started to get my spirit for music back and I started to

Love for Navy blue

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  I don't know when I started to love Navy blue but after a certain point I started to go crazy for navy blue I fell in love with it. I somehow get the dresses in navy blue whether it's a coincidence or not but my mom isn't happy with the navy blue dresses that I chose since my wardrobe is almost filled with navy blue. My eyes automatically go to anything that is covered with Navy blue in a crowd, I feel like I'm getting obsessed with navy blue a lot these days. Navy blue, Is a rare colour in nature and it looks classy and also makes our minds Calm we might think that only light colours like baby pink, white, green, purple, and blue can Calm people and make the atmosphere peaceful but navy blue is also a transmitter of calmness to our heart and brain. I've noticed that dark colours like navy blue, black, and teal make people look attractive, Maybe that's why everyone prefers to wear something dark on an important occasion. Navy blue is an elegant colour that giv

Traffic light

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  We have seen the traffic lights and we know what it indicates. While having a talk with my mom this evening about the blog, she told me about 3 different types of people in this world which would be compared to the traffic lights. I'm gonna share here the interesting facts that my mom told me. Starting from the top the GREEN light indicates the people who rush things just like the people who fly away with their vehicle as soon as they see the green light, I hate when people rush up things because it stresses the people who are around them, My dad used to hasten me up in the morning while coming to college which stresses me, in the hurriedness I'll forget my watch, water bottle, lunch or something which might be helpful for that day, that stress would spoil our mood for the whole day. The YELLOW light indicates the people who do things in a particular organized order which would reduce the level of failure in their life, Even though if they make any mistake, they have the pati

DAD

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  I'm super excited to announce that it's my 50th blog so today I wanna talk about a person who inspired me, supported me, and encouraged me in every aspect of life from my childhood that is MY DAD who's in his 50s. He was the one in our house who encouraged me to try everything by saying whether we do it perfectly or not but keeping up our confidence and doing it is the biggest achievement that you could ever get. I used to share a certain incident with my dad which might panic my mom if she got to know about it like getting caught by traffic police, getting scolded by random people on the road while riding a bike, travelling to places all by myself...and many more he will be like, Okay don't worry, try to be more careful from next time. he wants me tackle all the situation by myself since it'll help me to get stronger in future, But don't think he'll be a cool dad definitely no he might convince since that would be a first time but if I repeat the same thi

Comparsion

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 Whether it is kids or adults no one likes to get compared with others we might agree if someone points out our mistake and we'll try not to repeat it again but if we get compared by others we might think of ourselves as low or else we get insecurities, It is common among teenagers as they are being sensitive as growing up in an Asian household we all have witness comparing us with the neighbourhood kids or with our cousin or with our siblings, I feel like the comparison which parents make about their kids doesn't make them a right person instead it may create a conflict between their friends and family. We never liked our parents comparing us with others right? I believe that each and everyone has their kind of stuff to handle and not everyone has the same lifestyle as us and everyone's life differs from one another so comparing others with us never finds a solution to a problem. A kid growing up having a self disesteem of themselves which is mostly created by their parent