Comparsion

 Whether it is kids or adults no one likes to get compared with others we might agree if someone points out our mistake and we'll try not to repeat it again but if we get compared by others we might think of ourselves as low or else we get insecurities, It is common among teenagers as they are being sensitive as growing up in an Asian household we all have witness comparing us with the neighbourhood kids or with our cousin or with our siblings, I feel like the comparison which parents make about their kids doesn't make them a right person instead it may create a conflict between their friends and family. We never liked our parents comparing us with others right? I believe that each and everyone has their kind of stuff to handle and not everyone has the same lifestyle as us and everyone's life differs from one another so comparing others with us never finds a solution to a problem. A kid growing up having a self disesteem of themselves which is mostly created by their parents will continue to doubt themselves in everything they do, they never believe in themselves because the self disesteem will never let them do what they dreamed of, which will continue to be them in their studies, their extracurricular, in their working place and their family....so on At a point when they started to compare themselves with others which will make them to lose the confidence in them. Avoiding Comparison among kids and making them feel confident about themselves is a part of good parenting is that what I believe.